About Dominique · Dominique Stelling
About

She didn’t set out to build a framework. Life insisted.

Dominique Stelling is a transformational coach and speaker based in Zürich, working with clients worldwide. Her work restores nervous-system coherence and recalibrates identity, a return to what she calls the Pure State.

The Collapse, Then the Search

The life that looked right stopped working. From the inside out.

Years ago, the life Dominique had carefully built quietly stopped working: not in any way a checklist could catch, but from the inside out. The achievements were real. The steadiness underneath them was not.

The search that followed was long and honest: psychology and nervous-system science on one side, and on the other, teachers in the East. Years of study and practice eventually led her to Bhutan, to Tibetan Rinpoches and monks, and to a stillness she had never met anywhere else.

Portrait of Dominique Stelling
The Realization
What she found wasn’t a cure. It was a return: coherence is never lost, only forgotten, and it can be restored.
Dominique Stelling in stillness practice
Bhutan & the Lineage

Riding the Dragon in Bhutan.

Walking with Tibetan Rinpoches and monks, Dominique wasn’t handed techniques. She was shown how steadiness is actually lived, and it changed how she works with every client.

Once a year she returns to Bhutan, and brings a small group with her.

Walk the Pilgrimage
Philosophy & Method

The Pure State Framework™. One spine, three movements.

Regulate, Recalibrate, Embody: a process for restoring nervous-system coherence, recalibrating identity, and returning to embodied clarity. Inside it live her named tools: the P.U.R.E. process (Problem · Understand · Reframe · Evolve) that rewrites the belief under the pattern, and the T.E.A. approach (Thoughts · Emotions · Actions) that turns new thinking into lived steadiness.

It isn’t therapy, and it isn’t advice. It is a structured return to the state that was always yours.

Dominique Stelling at her desk
Dominique’s Bio

In her own words. The full story.

For 27 years, I lived in the shadow of late-stage Lyme disease. It was an invisible illness that left me exhausted, in pain, and often feeling isolated and misunderstood. There were moments when I lost hope, when I wondered if I would ever truly live again. My healing came not from a single treatment, but from a deep, soul-level journey, learning to listen to my body, understand the power of my thoughts, and create an inner environment where healing could happen. It changed everything about how I live, think, and see the world. Today, I consider myself healed and harmonized, and my mission is to help others find the same freedom. I teach people how to access their inner medicine, release what keeps them stuck, and rediscover their wholeness. My story is about illness, yes, but even more, it’s about resilience, awakening, and the incredible potential we all have to heal.

I was essentially kissed awake by a tick — a 3 decade journey through chronic illness led me to the deepest medicine: presence, consciousness, and sovereignty. I didn’t heal by fighting my body, but by listening to it. This insight came from studying mindfulness and meditation. And now in hindsight I realize that my illness gave me the opportunity to do so and the stillness I was forced into was an opportunity to go inward. Something I could have never done if I lived a “normal life”.

In essence what I want to share with the world now is my Riding The Dragon and Living The Pure State Philosophy, a culmination of everything I learned on my journey from healing from Chronic Lyme Disease:

I never expected my greatest teacher to arrive disguised as illness. For years, I believed healing meant fighting—against pain, loss, and the chaos my life had become. I tried to force my body back into what it once was, but no matter how hard I struggled, I couldn’t return.

What I didn’t know then was that beneath the shattered dreams and resistance, something in me remained whole—quiet, still, untouched. When I finally felt it, it was like touching the sky after years of staring at storm clouds. I realized no illness, heartbreak, or chaos can touch this deeper essence. It’s always been here, waiting.

Like the lotus rising from the mud, challenges are not mistakes but the fertile ground for growth.

For much of my journey, I believed freedom meant controlling my circumstances. I pushed, resisted, and fought my body. But when I stopped struggling, I discovered an inner stillness that existed even in the midst of chaos. From that place came peace, clarity, and strength that didn’t depend on fixing anything.

My journey began at eighteen, when late-stage Lyme disease ended my life as a dancer. For decades, I searched for cures across doctors, therapies, and treatments. Nothing restored the life I’d lost. But in turning inward—through mindfulness, healing practices, and deep inner work—I realized healing wasn’t about erasing pain. It was about transforming my relationship to it.

Illness became my dragon. At first, I tried to slay it. Eventually, exhausted, I asked: What are you here to teach me? That question changed everything. Each setback revealed resilience, each limit an invitation inward. The dragon hadn’t come to destroy me—it had come to wake me up.

Learning to ride the dragon, I found freedom in stillness. When my body could no longer dance, I discovered an inner dance—the rhythm between suffering and awareness. This became the movement of the Dragon: fluid, fierce, uncontainable. Through it, I discovered a new way of being—aligned with what had always been whole within me.

This ultimately helped me get from illness to wellness.

Background & Experience

Quietly, the credentials.

01
Practice

Transformational coaching, Zürich & online

One-to-one and group work with founders and leaders under sustained load, in person in Zürich and online worldwide.

02
Lineage

Study & pilgrimage in the East

Years of study with teachers in the East, including time in Bhutan among Tibetan Rinpoches and monks, a living influence on the work, not a footnote.

03
Method

The Pure State Framework™

Creator of the framework and its tools, the P.U.R.E. process and the T.E.A. approach, taught through her private work, programs, and retreats.

04
Speaking

Stages & rooms, including London 2026

Talks on nervous-system coherence and identity recalibration, calm, precise, and built for the body, not only the intellect.

The Book
Coming Soon

Living the Pure State. 12 Alignments for Everyday Transformation and Inner Clarity.

Living the Pure State: 12 Alignments for Everyday Transformation and Inner Clarity is grounded in Buddhist psychology and mindfulness practice, offering a practical path to greater inner stability, clarity and meaningful transformation. Through twelve accessible Alignments, Dominique brings together contemplative wisdom, mind–body practices and lessons from her twenty-seven-year healing journey from late-stage Lyme disease to help readers meet stress, change and challenge with greater presence and conscious response.

Living the Pure State, book cover
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